3rd post today.. sighs..
got this from LOVE's blog.. find it a thinking point
When leaders make a mistake, they say, "I was wrong."
When followers make mistakes,they say, "It wasn't my fault."
A leader works harder than a follower;
a follower is always "too busy" to do what is necessary.
A leader goes through a problem;
a follower goes around it and never gets past it.
A leader makes and keeps commitments;a follower makes and forgets promises.
A leader says, "I'm good, but not as good as I ought to be;"a follower says, "I'm not as bad as a lot of other people."
Leaders listen;followers just wait until it's their turn to talk.
Leaders respect those who are superior to them and tries to learn something from them;followers resent those who are superior to them and try to find chinks in their armor.
Leaders feel responsible for more than their job;followers say, "I only work here."
A leader says, "There ought to be a better way to do this;"followers say, "That's the way it's always been done here."
-anonymous
after looking at this, i ask myself, was i a good leader last time. am i still a good leader now.
not even good. am i even behaving like a leader. did i behave like a leader.
i guess my ans to myself is
NO.
i never knew what i was doing. all i knew was to slack.
it was like that in the past. it is like that now.
even being the vice-chair did no help.
it was like that in tkrcy. it is now in tj fau.
i know i have always yearned to be a leader.
but am i really one?
they say i am.
but am i really one?
NO, i'm not.
i've wasted my time in ULP.
i've wasted my chance from shenyang, tkrcy, and all.
i dont want to be just a follower.
but i am not fit to be a leader.
maybe, its time for me to reflect again.
